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Hi! Everybody am back to blogging and this blog is all about the deteriorating value of relationships among youngsters. 

Healthy loyal and genuine relationships are some of the best gifts a man can ever possess.A  man is judged, respected and remembered for the amount of time and patience he invests in a relationships. 

Relationships are something that are carefully constructed with love, care, involvement  and are easily broken by ego, hatred, impatience etc. It takes years to build a relationship and seconds to break them. 

But with the rapid advancement of technology and an increase in social media usage & online dating apps the value of relationships has been drastically reduced. Does today's generation really need a relationship? Or it’s just to spend cold nights, post snapchat videos and upload selfies is a million dollar question which remains unanswered among today's youngsters.

A good relationship is when there is one soul in two bodies which cares, loves , pines to be with each other and where all the necessary steps are taken to nurture, nourish with a strong intention and determination to stay with each other during ups & downs. 

A relationship is not only spoiled by the lack of love, irresponsibility etc but also by breach of trust, extra marital affairs, clandestine affairs which play a major role in tearing relationships apart. The recent rule issued by the supreme court in legalizing adultery has not only bought national shame but has also made people very selfish. It has the much needed power to inculcate a strong misconception among human beings that it is first a beautiful face & a sexy body that are  important in a relationship and not the heart that cares. 

Apart from the above mentioned qualities other qualities such as possessiveness, insecurity, jealousy and obsession are something that ruins a relationship. A matured relationship is when the other person understands the love behind the obsession and an immatured relationship is when the other person fail to understand the love behind the obsession . Failing to understand the love leads to painful breakup which in turn leads to disinterest to patch up & also to accept another relationships.  

Life is short & full of uncertainty so with the time left for us to live let’s all maintain good and healthy relationship with our loved ones. Good relationships are a vital component of a man's health & well being.The health risk of being alone & isolated in one's life is compared to living with high untreated diabetics & blood pressure etc.

Please remember no relationship is perfect kindly  do not ignore / abandon relationships for a few faults because in the end you might end up losing diamonds while counting stones. 

Thank you.